Have you ever heard the name Ron Wigg? When people see or hear my
last name that’s usually the first thing that comes to mind, at least if you are in
the soccer industry that is. I’ll get the generic questions asking if I’m his
granddaughter or if I’m somehow connected to him. Most of the time my father’s
name will trickle in there as well. All of these grand memories these strangers
shared with my grandfather that they have stored forever in their minds yet I hold
none. I have to base my depiction of him off of pictures and stories that have
gone through a game of telephone. No one wants to tell me the bad so they twist
and crumple up their stories like a piece of paper so you can’t see what truly lies
within. I am only able to see bits and pieces of this story. This means I will never
be able to formulate a rational opinion of this man. However, I do know for a fact
that this man achieved extraordinary things in his short life.
Born on May 18, 1949 in Great Dunmow, England, Ron was an English
forward who played for a total of eight respectable professional football clubs
including Ipswitch Town and Watford. Beginning his career at the age of fifteen, it
was clear that Ron held an intense passion and love for the game. However, he
ended his soccer career in America. After first moving to America he played for
the Columbus Magic of the American Soccer League, scoring the first
professional soccer goal in Columbus history. He ended the season with thirteen
goals within twenty-seven games. His professional soccer career officially came
to a end after a mere ten games playing for the Cleveland Force, a professional
indoor team at the time. You may think that this is where the story ends but it’s
not. Ron continued to spread his vast knowledge of the game he cherished so
much through coaching professionally. To this day there is an award named after
him called the Ron Wigg Award (the Wiggie Award) which is given to a coach of
the Olympic Development Program each year. He was the Ohio South Soccer
Association Director of Coaching and Soccer Education when he suffered a fatal
heart attack on July 3, 1997. Today he is survived by his two sons, Daniel and
Michael Wigg. Even with Ron’s sudden expiration, it would be an understatement
to say that he impacted measureless amounts of people’s lives.
Someone’s life that Ron continues to impact to this day is his very own son
and my father, Daniel Wigg. At the tender age of fifteen Daniel commenced his
coaching career under his father’s wing. It was clear he had an undeniable gift
for coaching after he became the youngest person to successfully acquire the
USSF Nation “C” badge at the age of nineteen. He continues to produce division
one and MLS players through his strategic and passionate coaching. Now my
father has told me a vast amount of stories about my grandfather but one always
manages to stick in my head the most. My father was around the age of twelve
when Ron, his father, took him out to an open soccer field in Worthington. Ron
told him of the times when he would take a hundred soccer balls out onto a field
and practice shooting his penalty kicks over and over again. He then told my
father that he had the ability to hit the right post every time he struck the ball. As
Ron began to shoot Daniel started to laugh because his overly confident father
had missed every single shot. Ron was struck with confusion and was
determined to figure out the problem. He carefully measured the position of the
penalty spot and came to the conclusion that it was painted a few inches too far
to the left. The ball was then placed in the “correct” spot and Ron began to shoot
again. The next five shots hit exactly where he said they would, in off the right post.
Out of all those people that Ron had effected throughout his lifetime he
still manages to do the same to this day. This would include me. My grandfather
has showed me that one can in fact achieve the unachievable. My father always
tells me that Ron claimed that the day he stopped getting sick before a soccer
game would be the day he would end his career. He is basically saying the day
that that ends is the day he has lost his drive and passion for the game. This
motivates me to do what I have a passion for rather than be a victim of the
straight laced society that paves a path for the “realistic” way in life. He has
showed me that it is okay to take the road less traveled. Occupations such as
professional soccer player, singer and movie star seem as if they are at our
finger tips when we are young and we were told to shoot for the stars. Now they
sit us down and have us set “realistic” goals that can easily be achieved and
laugh at the ideas of those occupations. At what point did dreaming big become
impractical, childish and unobtainable? My grandfather has motivated me to
dream big and to not settle for second best. That is why I wear my grandfather’s
jersey number, ten, for both my high school and club soccer teams. I use it as a
reminder that no dream is out of reach. It fascinates me that a man whom I have
never met can influence my life so greatly and that is why I chose to tell his story.
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